How to blend décor styles when moving in with your partner

We all know the Abby Lee Miller TikTok sound “I want to sit back and relax and enjoy my evening. When all of a sudden, I hear this agitating, grating voice.” Next thing you know, your partner wants to hang their framed jersey from that one time they won a football grand final in your brand-new, aesthetically pleasing Mojo Home. Sound familiar?

Moving in with your partner and merging different styles can be both exciting and challenging. You’ve worked so hard to create a living space that’s chic and on-trend, only to face the potential upheaval of your vision by “decor additions” you never saw coming. But don’t worry—compromise doesn’t mean sacrificing style. Here’s how to strike the perfect balance when blending decor in your new Mojo Home.

Talk About Must-Haves

Before moving in, sit down and share the items that are non-negotiable for each of you. Maybe it’s that framed jersey for your partner and a set of designer vases for you. Understanding what holds sentimental value to both parties helps build a foundation of mutual respect.

Create Zones

Designate specific areas where each partner’s unique style can shine. Perhaps the home office or a man cave in the home theatre can become the new home for sports memorabilia, while the living room stays true to your modern aesthetic. This allows for personal expression without disrupting the overall vibe of shared spaces.

Upcycle and Refresh

Sometimes, that ‘agitating’ decor item can become a stylish focal point with a little creativity. Upcycle your partner’s old items with new frames, mounts, or display cases that fit your home’s aesthetic.

Set Some Boundaries

It’s essential to agree on some general decor guidelines. Choose a cohesive colour palette or an overall theme that aligns with your vision for your new Mojo Home. This will help guide decisions and prevent any one item from feeling out of place.

Compromise Through Rotation

If you’re worried about an item taking over your space, agree to display it temporarily. Rotating decor pieces every season keeps your space feeling fresh and allows both partners to showcase their prized items over time.

Create a Shared Wishlist

Compile a list of decor items that both of you love and agree to invest in together. This could be a piece of art, a statement lamp, or a cosy throw. It ensures that your home reflects both of your personalities while establishing new memories tied to items you chose as a team.

Respect the Sentiment

While it’s tempting to want everything perfect, remember that a home is more than just an Instagram-worthy space—it’s a reflection of both your journeys and personalities. Embracing each other’s favourite pieces (within reason!) can bring a deeper meaning and warmth to your new space.

Moving in with your partner is about blending not just your lives, but your styles. And sure, you might not love those childhood trophies as much as your partner does, but making room for it in a stylish, intentional way is part of creating a harmonious home together. After all, your brand-new Mojo Home isn’t just a house—it’s where the two of you start building a life full of memories, laughter, and, yes, even a little compromise.